Exchanging gifts, while fun in theory, offers endless potential for aggravation: Thronging crowds, ransacked stores, confusion, indecision, cash depletion and, finally, the belated knowledge that you bought the wrong thing.And even worse, perhaps, is receiving a spousal gift that you wouldn't buy for your worst enemy. Well, maybe for your worst enemy, but only if it's on sale.
But there is a cure for the holiday gift blues. Just substitute this agreement for those subtle hints -- the ones that are always either missed or misconstrued. Then kiss that Returns Counter good-bye. This year's gifts are for keeps.
GIFTS FOR WIFE:
1. Self-serving gifts shall be avoided. For example, Husband shall not buy Wife the following:
a. Chocolate when Wife is on a diet.
b. Tight clothing meant to encourage Wife to diet.
c. Anything transparent.
2. Husband shall not give Wife practical gifts such as an iron, a dish washer, or a vacuum cleaner... unless husband plans to use them.
3. Husband shall keep track of Wife's clothing sizes, except those Wife refuses to divulge.
4. Husband shall not give Wife anything that can be bought at an airport.
5. Husband shall not buy Wife earrings that weigh more than her head.
6. Husband shall remember that gifts should be personal. Gift certificates, checks, and wads of cash are not personal...unless large enough to buy a diamond watch.
7. Husband shall avoid all of the following:
a. His former girl-friend's favorite fragrance.
b. His mother's favorite fragrance.
c. Anything Wife admires on someone else, unless Husband confirms candor of compliment.
8. Husband is encouraged to buy Wife gifts in the following categories:
a. Anything Wife specifically requests.
b. Catalogue items discreetly circled by Wife.
c. Any object containing silver, platinum, and/or gold.
a. Chocolate when Wife is on a diet.
b. Tight clothing meant to encourage Wife to diet.
c. Anything transparent.
2. Husband shall not give Wife practical gifts such as an iron, a dish washer, or a vacuum cleaner... unless husband plans to use them.
3. Husband shall keep track of Wife's clothing sizes, except those Wife refuses to divulge.
4. Husband shall not give Wife anything that can be bought at an airport.
5. Husband shall not buy Wife earrings that weigh more than her head.
6. Husband shall remember that gifts should be personal. Gift certificates, checks, and wads of cash are not personal...unless large enough to buy a diamond watch.
7. Husband shall avoid all of the following:
a. His former girl-friend's favorite fragrance.
b. His mother's favorite fragrance.
c. Anything Wife admires on someone else, unless Husband confirms candor of compliment.
8. Husband is encouraged to buy Wife gifts in the following categories:
a. Anything Wife specifically requests.
b. Catalogue items discreetly circled by Wife.
c. Any object containing silver, platinum, and/or gold.
GIFTS FOR HUSBAND:
1. Wife shall not give Husband anything that smells like perfume...no matter how macho its name or spokesman.
2. Wife shall not buy Husband home repair manuals.
3. Wife shall not give Husband anything "cute" or containing the word "organizer."
4. Wife shall not get Husband anything used in a gym.
5. Wife shall not buy Husband silk boxers, unless she agrees to wear a matching pair.
6. Wife shall not give Husband anything that's for Husband's own good.
7. Wife is encouraged to buy husband items in the following categories:
a. Anything Couple's twelve year old son would like.
b. Sporting equipment, provided Husband can exchange it for something with a better feel.
c. Stereo and electronic equipment, provided Husband can exchange it for something with more oomph. Adopted From www.madkane.com
2. Wife shall not buy Husband home repair manuals.
3. Wife shall not give Husband anything "cute" or containing the word "organizer."
4. Wife shall not get Husband anything used in a gym.
5. Wife shall not buy Husband silk boxers, unless she agrees to wear a matching pair.
6. Wife shall not give Husband anything that's for Husband's own good.
7. Wife is encouraged to buy husband items in the following categories:
a. Anything Couple's twelve year old son would like.
b. Sporting equipment, provided Husband can exchange it for something with a better feel.
c. Stereo and electronic equipment, provided Husband can exchange it for something with more oomph. Adopted From www.madkane.com
